The real secret of an incredible relationship has absolutely nothing to do with the other person. It has to do with you. You can only love as much as your heart is capable of loving. Not just that person but anything. There's only one door to the heart. You can't keep it closed to all kinds of people and all kinds of things and all kinds of situations but think well the right person, then I'll open it for him. It doesn't work that way. It's one door. So your ability to love period is the basis for a great relationship. How much am I capable of loving. How passionate am I about life.
How much am I capable of loving the sunrise, this day, my dog, myself. If you are conditionally loving things. I love this a little bit, I love... I'm not talking about preferences but when there's something you really care about, if you don't know how to give yourself to it a hundred percent, when the right person comes along you won't know how to love him or her. If you think the other person's going to do things to make you love them, that's a misunderstanding. Your love has a life of it's own. And your ability to love has nothing to do with if the person is pleasing you or not. It has to do with how much your heart is ready to just jump into the fire.
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