"I think romantic love is a place where we seek to complete ourselves, in each other, and that mutual need I think is not neurotic but rather deep and profound and beautiful and glorious."

"With every experience in life, you are at choice. No one else is at choice. You are at choice. Am I going to experience this in a shallow way or in a deeper way? And sex is the same. And that's what's ruined sex for a lot of us. Is that we held it in a shallow place. And we have reaped the bitter harvest that comes from holding sex in a shallow place. But if we hold it in a deeper place, that magnetizes to us the experiences which are of a deeper realm, and we learn to just say no to it when it's offered in any less deep place. And then you move into the deeper mysteries of sex."